haha. i found a really interesting piece of information, while researching on a f ingly dreadful assignment our lecturer gave us. (me n my f ed up procrasti-nation of coursemates). well in a research, it was found that fear and anxiety was non existent in the female brain, when they're having a genuine orgasm. so, lets reduce our fears, worries and stress.. and there's a higher chance of reaching that much coveted genuine orgasm.